You Live in Oregon and You've Never Been in Playboy
... so why do you think you're worth $10,000-20,000/month?
Women in this state are crazy. Especially the ones who are on a sugar daddy website, but say "no sexual favors" - are you serious? You can find a penpal anywhere. Look at urbandictionary for the general, socially definition for what a sugar daddy is - it includes some level of sex, the companionship depends on the person.
I think there's only a couple women in this state that might be worth five figures. That kind of money is for LA, Vegas, the ritzy places. Even then, you still need to be smokin' hot.
Don't just expect to get things for free, especially when you're not even that attractive. There's a reason people have jobs and whores exist - if people didn't have to do anything to get paid, they wouldn't. So stop pretending you're special and start thinking like a businesswoman.