So You Want To Be A "Sugar Baby"
Here's some pretty simple rules you should consider:
- You're getting money (typically), going shopping, an exotic vacation or something along those lines. Why the hell would you stand someone up or stop talking to someone if they're going to be giving you presents and things? Stop being flaky. Why are you even bothering?
- Don't lie on your profile and say you don't smoke when you smoke a pack a day. Represent yourself properly. I am so tired of meeting women who are not close to what their profile says.
- Have your shit together. A "sugar daddy" isn't paying for your company to have to deal with your stupid drama and trashy things going on in your life. He wants what he's been presented with on your profile. Which goes back to the item above, which is don't misrepresent yourself from the start.
- Treat your man with respect. Unless he's told you some fetish of being disrespected, he wants a warm body who makes him feel happy and important, smart and respected.
Of course, everything comes down to what you agree upon, but most men want someone to escape with - physically, mentally, intimately, whatever. They may be busy, which is fine - all the more reason that the small time you spend together is positive. He doesn't want to deal with your drama. That is YOUR issue, not his. If he wanted those issues, he'd ask to date or marry you, not create an arrangement with you.
This is just a small and disorganized list of tips. Perhaps at some point I will create a much cleaner list that is more well thought out... but I have a feeling over time as I write more about my specific experiences, that it will be apparent why I've been wanting to get all this out of my head...